It's a piece of advice I've heard when someone is talking about doing some grueling activity like running a marathon or hiking the Appalachian Trail.
'Don't think about the distance you have left or not knowing what's around the next corner, just keep putting one foot in front of the other.' It sounds a bit trite when you think about it, (
Really? I thought if I stopped and stood around the answer to all my questions would leap out of that rabbit hole) but it's true. It's easy to get bogged down in the minutia of the hunt, the great migration, and you need to remind yourself to stop thinking about it and just do it.
The temp agency sent out a cattle call email last week about a position that would suit our family extremely well. There were 2 slots available for an initial skills test, the 2 slots filled on a first come first serve basis. I thought it was unusual that a job requiring a skills test be sent out as a cattle call and slots filled on a first come first serve basis. I put my questions aside and pounded out the phone number and landed the first slot. I was told the test would cover basic office environment skills like navigating the Internets, setting up appointments, composing word docs and transferring calls, all things I'm more than capable of doing. I felt confident about my chances and pleased with myself for being johnny on the spot, I was the first in line. I had an easy time with the test and met briefly with the person that would be doing the hiring and felt good about our brief exchange, further bolstering my soaring hopes. Today, I called the temp agency to follow up on everything. The great news is that I did extremely well on my test (not surprised) and that I was a pleasure to meet with. Also, nice to hear. Well, they promoted someone from within to fill the position. Not nice to here. Sure that's great for the person that has the job, I'm sure they're very happy with their new surroundings and change in daily routine. They're probably telling their friends and family about their new job, their new boss, maybe even talking about their new desk. Their co-workers are probably making those lame office jokes
'You're leaving us behind??' or
'You're leaving us?! Don't you like us? Hahahaha!' Everyone is a damn comedian.
This is the second promising job and interview I've been on in 2 weeks. Both of them are jobs I'm capable of performing and excelling at. Both would work well for our family, for different reasons. Both meant work. Both meant a chance to get out of house and see what the hell John Q. Public is up to these days. Both said, "Thanks for your interest but we're moving forward with someone else."
It's been almost a year since I last left the house daily for a pay check. Since then I've stayed quite busy, planning our wedding, helping break in our adopted dog, remodeling our bathroom. I've also done some substitute teaching gigs and temporary office work for the temp agency. In between I'm a Stay-at-Home Dad sans the chillins. I take care of our dog, do the laundry, the dishes, run errands, go grocery shopping and do whatever else I can to help keep the house running smoothly. I enjoy doing all of those things and keeping the house running smoothly, everyone is happy when the house runs smoothly. However we have things we'd like to do with our lives and fortunately or unfortunately money is involved with them. It's basic math more money coming in the door means the quicker we can achieve our goals. While I'm not having a lot of luck on the 'pay me for my efforts' front I'm at least getting to the interview stage, I'm getting very good at telling strangers that I'm awesome. I'm still sending out the resume and hoping someone wants to hear me tell them how awesome I am, and then offer me a job because they are so enamored by my awesomeness. I'm also taking the opportunity to give back to the world, to enrich the lives of others and satiate my appetite for being productive in a new way. I'm exploring a couple volunteer opportunities, one is with a local children's museum, and the other is with a local non-profit group that maintains a series of nature trails and walking paths in and around our fair city. Sure they wouldn't pay me for efforts, but I could get out of the house and do something different. It also helps when someone asks
'What have you done with yourself in the past year? Well, I've done all these things in my personal life and I've also been volunteering at such and such a place doing this that and the other thing.' I have no idea when I'll join the ranks of those that get paid for their daily struggles, I hope it's soon. Until then I'm just going to keep putting one foot in front of the other.